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Hey Girls!
It’s a new era, and I’m thrilled to share it with all of you. Shout-out to one of you for coming up with the new era name ‘Becoming HER Diaries’. 2024 is the year of transformation, and I’m committed to making it my best year yet, inshallah. This week was a busy workweek, but I definitely found ways to make it enjoyable. I started doing pilates, spent time with my bestie and my sister. This season, we are building projects, nurturing relationships, developing ourselves, and planting seeds so that we may reap the fruits of our labor if God wills. I hope these vlogs serve as support for all of you who are on a similar journey. I’m rooting for you! I’m excited to continue this journey with all of you—love you more than life! See you next week! 🧚🏽♂️
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♡ Contents Of Video ♡
00:00 – Intro
00:27 – Saturday – Dinner date w/ sister
02:11 – Sunday – Protein Shake Recipe
04:41 – Monday – work day, easy meals, gym, mall
09:07 – Tuesday – Pilates, Workday, Hanging out with besties
19:27 – Wednesday – Gym, New Book, Gucci Slingbacks hehe
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They say you can change your life in a year and I truly believe that I fully committed to making 2024 the most transformative year of my life this week was all about stepping outside of my comfort zone challenging myself pouring into my passion projects and most importantly taking care of
Myself I invite you to join me on my journey welcome to the becoming her Diaries hey friends good I was going to say good morning it is not morning it is Saturday happy Saturday today has been such a long day we went to the gym I
Just filmed a video for you guys that’s supposed to go up tomorrow so we’re going to want to come home edit edit all day tomorrow to get it up for you guys on time but I’m going to dinner with my sister we are all dressed you guys know
I was itching to wear this outfit last week so any chance I got we’re going to wear this Outfit the camera is in face me so the back of the camera is facing and she she goes thinking that the camera was on anyway I got let me tell you guys my faves on here okay we got the watermelon AUA fresa which is a non-alcoholic drink that they have and
It’s so good also the chips and the queso and then the salsas but then there’s three it comes with three Salsas we like two of them one is like sweet and then the other one’s like kind of a wild one this place is so cute and has such good vibe I like this
Interior yes we’re definitely going to be taking notes on the inter decoration tomal salsa the green one and then the peser habanero which is the spicy awesome thank you this queso it’s a Mag good morning and happy Sunday you guys are currently balanced on my Stanley so I hope it’s balanced it’s going to be a good day there’s definitely a lot to do today and I have to begin with newsletter and then editing usually I have the newsletter
For some reason this week I didn’t have it prescheduled and so I’m just going to schedule it that’s really all that I need to do and then we’re going to get straight into editing um this video for the week it’s currently 7:00 my main focus today is getting this video up
Getting this video done and then we have to schedule for the week I literally am so grateful for everything like it’s a good day it’s a good morning I get another shot at life I get another shot at being better so alhamdulillah alhamdulillah for you guys who don’t
Know means all praise is truly due to God it’s a way of showing gratitude so yeah my face looks so puffy that’s cuz I literally just woke up also this little knitted sweater it is so cozy it’s Essentials fear of God but it’s from the men’s section and it’s just incredible I
Love y’all and I will see y’all later when we’re actually doing something I made myself a little yogurt Bowl with the Coco June yogurt the probiotic yogurt some bananas and some strawberries because there’s not a lot of options because it’s Sunday grocery shopping day and then of course I made myself a little Matcha your girl is starving giving American breakfast for Real Good morning and happy Monday today our first order of business is going to the gym getting in our workout early it is currently 700 I woke up at 6:30 and yeah we just need to get the ball rolling and then we have a little work day ahead of
Us my nails are so gross you guys like I feel like I’ve just been so busy that I haven’t had the time to like take care of my nails and stuff which is crazy but yeah let’s go to the gym I’m on my period so I won’t be lifting but
Tomorrow I have Pilates in the morning so today I think I’m going to do like a full body body weight workout and then I’m going to walk on the treadmill for an hour so Yeah yeah I see him but honestly I don’t even know when that will be we got our organic sugar-free turkey bacon DJ C go on oh I would have an avocado but you guys I have my favorite guacamole and my sister bought the Big Tub because there was only the big tub
So I’m going to save my avocado consumption for what I’m having my guacamole today I just love her let’s listen to a little pod it is not my responsibility to make you like me to be honest I actually don’t give a that’s because you don’t have one there ain’t no summing it
Up light a little bit to this is my city I belong here if I just you know try to We lost no this is the best we’re going to do because a is hungry this is my lazy lunch we’re going to do chicken okay we’re going to do as much chicken as we can because protein you guys this looks so gross but yeah it really does but she
Has to eat healthy cuz she said she’s in her healthy girl era I said skinny girl Era look at that y’all scared to post on IG wear period look at me getting over my fear need this a little too pink is it really that deep answer is no y’all should follow me if you don’t get to it get to it I haven’t had a wrap in so
Long a meal for Champions I I give someone something as a gift it doesn’t feel right if you don’t give anyone else a gift it looks good in video but not really in real life it smells good too I don’t know I think I’m killing it right
It smells good but it doesn’t look good in real life at live was good at the video you guys this Skyline Here was my little OOTD these jeans are from revolve I love the cuff at the bottom this is Essentials fear of God but this is the men’s I’ve literally been wearing all Week We are ashy ashy as hell good morning I want to get to the gym as early as I can today because I have a few things that I want to get done today before I go and meet up with my friend just have some
Work to do today so I’m like I just want to get to the gym I want to get back that’s it per usug I’m going to be using my my roader this brings life back into my Face there is no sun to be protected of right now you guys I took out my third piercings it just got like badly infected and it’s so stupid because I’ve been cleaning it I’ve been taking care of it and it just got really really bad
And painful that I had to take it out I feel like you get the best piercings when you go to a tattoo parlor and like piercing shop because they just know what to do and it doesn’t get infected let’s start moving to the gym also it is currently OOTD that’s it nothing special
Nothing cute those birds were paid Actresses 5 6 7 8 4 5 4 5 6 7 8 1 2 3 4 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 and 100 and the last One hey guys guys good morning I was planning on going to the gym this morning but there was a spot that opened up in the 7:00 a.m. plaes class this morning so I decided to go to that instead and when I tell you I don’t know why I choose to torture myself it
Is the pain that I felt it was crazy but it just made me realize like how much stronger my core can be how much stronger my upper body could be so recognizing that is like making me want to do better you know what I mean like
It’s making me want to go back so that I could have a stronger core so that I could be stronger and it’s just it’s actually torture I can’t lie but it is amazing after you’re done like it just feels so good once you’re finished but I
Had a really good time and who is she who is she who is she filming in public who is she setting up her camera next time we can definitely do better shots but it’s the best we can do um before I go ahead and make some breakfast I’m going to schedule
Everything for the day I already know exactly what we’re going to be doing for the day but just to kind of get an overview of what’s going to be happening today the plan is I don’t know why Aaliyah is not responding to me but she wanted to do she wanted to go thrifting
And so I was going to number one workout is complete let’s actually go through my to-do list my arms are literally shaking right now start vlogging the day 7:30 gym I ended up doing Pilates well I was supposed to walk on the treadmill I was supposed to do pick videos to upload for
The day but that’s going to be what I do now and then I’m going to be working all day on projects and then I’m going to get ready and hang out with aah go thrifting um and then begin editing the Vlog that’s kind of my plan for the day
I’m just going to be literally all day we’re working on projects and all of that so but Aaliyah has not responded me to me yet but I’m sure we’ll be fine if not I think I’m I’m just going to go out by myself go to a coffee shop to do the
Rest of my work and edit I’m just going to pick and choose which content that I want to post today and then once I’m done with everything here then we can go make ourselves breakfast I am quite hungry I can’t lie I’m going to have a
Protein shake and then I think I’m just going to have I don’t really want eggs you know what I mean like I feel like I got the egg ick a little I don’t know what we’re going to do for breakfast maybe a yogurt Bowl but that doesn’t
Usually keep me full I don’t know I just want to get out the house today it is is a beautiful day it’s extremely gloomy all week it’s like 25° I think so it’s not that bad I will catch up with you guys in just a moment we got our little
Breakfast which is the cocoa June yogurt with strawberries coconut flakes and honey and then of course my little protein shake this is honestly all I’m going to do I got the egg Egg okay outfit definitely isn’t giving today but it’s cold outside I really have no choice but to try to dress like a truck driver but I feel like I don’t know you guys I feel like this outfit it’s fine but it’s so not me I’m definitely out of my era of dressing
Like a man so this got to go okay JK I changed and I feel like it’s just a little bit more me like we still have the really bad bgy jeans but I think just like the purse and then this like this jacket just adds a little bit of
That feminine touch and that feminine feel that I feel like the first one was missing I absolutely can take my bag even though this looks kind of crazy but this is the only bag that fits all my work so or all my stuff so we are ready
Let’s go the fact that I need to get gas is actually killing my vibe right now You We really could have like shared one shared the salad I know we didn’t finish our salads no I still have I mean I really went through mine we’ve literally been sitting here for rotting 2 hours and 16 minutes you guys we have been vlogging in public all day through you guys should
Be proud of me Hey Vlog why am I white that lighting is not doing you justice we are we did a Target run and now we’re at Planet Smoothie and ran got a smoothie and then a bowl for us to try I thought you going to make me sound so bad
Yeah got a smoothie and Bowl but we’re going to try it and I’m excited I have not I feel like I have not been home all day at this point but you know what you just need one of those days how do I feel I’m excited to go home and sleep
Like y I’m just happy Zay Malik is outside he went outside one time he got his foot ran over bro he got ran over by a car Zayn is going to be forever my favorite One Direction member however I was a hairy girl I admit I admit Liam girl is understandable especially
In the beginning definitely not Liam was looking rough was it Liam there was definitely some Lou girls I don’t know people are weird but I was a hairy girl oh y so girl what’s going on you said What strip that n me yeah yeah yeah yeah strip that D girl love when you hit the ground yeah yeah yeah yeah stri that d you know been taking some time and i’ been keeping to myself I had my eyes up on the priz and worry about anybody else
But you love Hit me hard girl yeah your back for my health I like the cars that I’ve been D do you feel the same as well you know I used to be in Wy what no now I’m not free people want me for one thing that’s not me I’m about to go
In there and make the smoothie thank you oh can we get another spoon please thank you so much this thing is huge he’s fat blueberry that’s a fat blueberry you guys can take all the fruit and stuff oh um all you guys can eat all of the fruit on top I think
That’s natilla it has to be natilla no why you munching and crunching in front of your camera you go I feel like I just taste fruit right now I’m definitely still a nautical Bowl girl but it’s pretty good I’ll give it a 7 out of 10 Hello friends so we’re back
Home I love being like tired at the end of the day and being excited to kind of be back home I love these eye masks so much I feel like it’s so just like cooling like it just feels so good the night I love you all so much and I’m going see yall
Tomorrow we are ready for the gym I feel like I’m always in a black sweatsuit is it cute it’s absolutely horrendous but modesty definitely comes first okay so I’m going to make myself a little apple cider vinegar and water concoction just just for the health benefits does that look about right I
Honestly don’t hate the taste of apple cider vinegar like the smell of it used to make me gag when I was younger cuz my mom would make us take it when we were sick which I don’t even know if it does anything if you’re sick today is another work day today my
Agenda is really just working on my projects I honestly am unsure what workout I want to do at the gym today like usually on Wednesdays is what shoulders chest and triceps but when I tell you I cannot feel my shoulders I cannot feel my traps I cannot feel my triceps I cannot feel
Anything really right now I may opt for a like day one way that I feel like I’m kind of challenging myself is filming in public especially when I’m by myself like I really struggle with that and then another thing is posting on Instagram like you guys see me stepping
Outside of my comfort zone I feel like because I have so many of you guys on my Instagram now it’s like not as weird like I feel like it’s more of a community like I know that I have my people you know so I love y’all I was like we’re going
To start slow you know do a dumbbell only leg day today why do I have I obviously haven’t been strength training or like lifting I guess um weights for a while and so got to ease your way back in I don’t want to do This good day hey guys so today is just going to be a little work from home day there’s a lot that goes into it but because it’s like so much computer work and I’m going to be sitting on my computer basically all day I try to find
A way to make it more fun I literally have to take so many breaks um just away from the screen to kind of like refresh debrief a little bit yeah this is my chosen workspace for the day I’m going to be sitting here for the next like 5
Hours of course I’m going to get up make lunch a little bit later but for now this is where we are this is where we’re working and this is what we’re doing later I’m going to take a little reading break and here’s the book that I’m
Currently reading it is the art of focus by Dan Co which he just came out with this book he’s one of my favorite YouTubers here yeah I had breakfast and then I spent some time like communicating with my virtual assistant and then like kind of organizing some
Things that we’re working on and going over some videos that she edited and things like that but for now it’s just me myself and I and working from home and you know what it’s not that fabulous it’s not that like exciting but like I try to make it fun and exciting I
Definitely know that it’s going to pay off later on and so you got to do what you got to do I think today today is the last day of this Vlog this weekend is going to be so exciting I have so much planned and so I’m going to be vlogging
That as well I swear I feel like I Vlog every single day of my life at this point like the look good Feelgood era Diaries really paid off because it set me up for kind of getting used to vlogging and getting comfortable vlogging and now I’m like pushing myself
To Vlog in public which is just crazy especially when I’m by myself I feel like it’s easier for me to Vlog in public when I’m with people but then by myself it’s like hard for me to Do Oh Okay guys skin care is done I decided to clean my space a little bit just to gift myself my future self my tomorrow self so that I can wake up to a clean nice fresh environment I feel like that just makes me a lot more motivated a lot more
Inspired and it just makes me happy now I’m going to light some candles I’m going to go make my sleepy girl mocktail watch Scream Queens with my sister also we started watching The Bachelor last night with Joey I can already tell it’s going to be such a good season if you
Guys watch The Bachelor let me know what you think of the sisters in the comments the sisters and the boat girl the girl that came on a boat but thank you guys for spending the week with me I hope you guys enjoyed this Vlog and I will see y’all next week a